OK.PDT, Mindful Luv, and everyone else,,, please advise..

My IC had a suggestion that I am seriously considering. IC says to make one last appt with the MC, and expose the affair in MC..this way she won't be able to "call the police" if she gets upset and there will be a MC referee as well.

I want to do this..even as my IC tells me, the W may still deny, every thing, yell or just walk out.. at least I can get it off of my chest and be done with it so I can move on. I feel that I need for my W to hear me, so I can feel like Ive dusted my hands and moved on... This is more about me now..

I'm looking for ideas, suggestions etc.. it is very hard for me to articulate statements that reflect the way I truly feel, so I'm looking for help. I can say the obvious, I'm hurt, upset, dissappointed etc, but those words seem pale to what I actually feel...

help....


DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09