Things were calm for so long, but since I went completely dark he seems to be spiraling out of control. I set it up so on the days my kids go to him, he has to pick them up at school, not the house. He drops them off at the house and my older daughter helps the younger one in the house. Ex was told last year some time to not enter the home and he has abided by it. He lets them off on the driveway and then leaves. It actually works out quite smoothly and the kids prefer it this way. They do not have to anticipate any tension.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11