Before you make any decisions on what you're going to do... make sure that you are of sound mind and not stuck in the midst of emotion when you execute them. Remember the 24/48 hour rule? That applies here too. Rob has given you good advice and so has ST. They are both saying very much the same thing.
Remember the 4C's. When you pull the trigger make sure you're aware of the full consequences of your actions and are fully prepared to live with them.
I know that when I made my mind up I was done -- and truly done. I didn't drop the rope, I shredded it. I wasn't doing anything to manipulate... I was doing it to set myself free and look forward to a new life. If you are done then this is what you need to do: Envision your life without your H in it. Plan for that life and work towards it without looking back.
I was going to cut and paste all the valid things Rob's written, but I don't have time to do that.This is something you're going to have to do.
You have some big decisions to make. Make them and stick to them and live them. I have been telling you this all along.
