Running out of time.

[Cadet]

I have read the six stages before as well.

Just keep in mind that when you read the stages they are only a guide. They don't go in any order and can repeat themselves. The time is also only a guide and every crisis can be different.

As difficult as it is I need to block her out of my mind and focus on me and the kids.

This is good! Exactly what you should do!