So what is it you are looking for then?

You don't want to do what we are suggesting - We as in people who have been in your shoes, asking ourselves the same questions etc.

Ignoring it or doing whatever she wishes isn't going to fix anything.

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~