Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

[trytryagain]

well, given that my H just moved out so he could think clearly, i understand why you would want to. on the day he moved out, he texted me and said, i don't know what's right or wrong anymore, but i need to start with this. so. what choice did i have but to let him go? in your case, why not stay in a hotel or a friend's for a week if you feel like that would be helpful for your focus and your state of mind. because my H physically took his belongings and moved (i don't even know where he lives now!), it's made me feel like our situation is waaaay more serious than i had thought before. like i thought maybe he was bluffing, i guess.

do you really think you'd move on in one short month? that's only 4 weeks. she probably would freak out if you actually moved out, but...like michele says, ask yourself if what you're about to do is going to take you closer to your goal or further away.