Originally Posted By: aljon8
because she doesnt want me there


This isn't about her - This is about you and your children.

Originally Posted By: aljon8
I was thinking the best way to start salvaging the situation was to give her what she wanted.


Laying down and putting a "doormat" on your back isn't attractive.

Originally Posted By: aljon8
I am 100% trusting in my wife that nothing physical has taken place.


Cheaters lie and I know plenty on this board that will challenge this statement from you.

Time to take your gonads back from her and decide what you want to do and what is best for you and your children.

(((Hugs)))

May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~