I say to myself, since X isn't there to listen: X, if this had gone down any other way. If you had come to me 6 months ago, a year ago, whenever you realized how unhappy you were, and we had TALKED. And TRIED. And if I had had a chance to TRY. And if it didn't work out, after good faith effort on both our parts, I would gladly hand the house over to you. You put so much more into it than I did. Even though I know a lot of what you put into it was to make a loving home for US. Us didn't work out, despite our best efforts, so I can walk away.
So clearly, my response to the house is situational.
What does that mean, Dr. Freud??
All these what ifs, it doesn't matter. My stbxh went to C twice, so he thinks he tried and put all the effort in saving M. lol
Think what is important for your future. If you are planning on moving and will be having a great life somewhere else, you won't be thinking much about your x keeping the house.
If I was planning on moving, I'd try to get as much $ for the house as possible.
