I can offer no advice because I thought the opposite of "$ lasts. Emotions don't." to be true.
I can see it from a point that LBS already have to deal with life changes in which they had no say so. It is about gaining control over your life back.
Maybe accept that you have equal claim to the house. OK, maybe you shouldn't read me any further, but what are they expecting? For you to move over? I don't think so!
