hey guys, I'm not being rude, that's just me and my smart ass ways, ST, I'm a guy, I'm looking at it from his point of view, but you don't enable someone's crap behavior, man or woman. I was a LBH and now I'm a WAH and that's where I need to be right now, it's the only place to be, I finally stopped submitting to my feelings on what I felt should work and I finally embraced reality and accepted what does work and it works for both men & women.
Her husband takes her for granted, that's a given. He shows that he doesn't care for her, and he blatantly ignores her. He enjoys way too much power in this relationship currently, and people who have too much power in a relationship abuse that power, he is no different and I don't feel that he's suffering. If anything, I had thoughts every now & then that he had a piece of somethin' on the side - I could be wrong but that was a thought that crept inside my head after reading some of the exchanges Luv has had with her husband.
