I so want to call his wife and tell her but I think that may be the wrong move
It IS the WRONG move.
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My point is to worry about his kids not his W.
Pilot, There is a process to this.
Forcing, suggesting, making, helping the MLCers do anything?
Eric, Look protect your kids, let them know that you love them, that you are there for them, if they have questions about mom, let them know she loves them but that she is having some difficult times right now.
You can tell her that D8 feels a little left out, but that is about it. But YOU do not help her connect until she starts moving in that direction. And wishing it was happening is not the same thing as it really happening.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK