You guys have some really interesting prospectives and make some valid points!
I love it.
Reality, that's my last reply on all of this, review the stories on this forum, take what info is applicable, view the effects on men when their wives suddenly lose interest and walk in the opposite direction and look how frantic most of these men react and how they work hard to get their wives back, alot of these men were doing the same things your husband is doing to you - they all admit now that they were dumb and shouldn't done better.
What motivated them to act and change?
Fear of loss.
It's the common denominator in all of these LBH's threads. And then another man comes into the picture, so not only are the wives leaving, someone else is waiting to take what these men no longer can hold on to.
I haven't read one LBH's thread that said, "I'm here just for $hits and giggles, my wife left and I'm super happy!!!!"