Hi sweetie,

I can see how hard last night was for you. I am proud how you handled it. I know with absolute certainty that it is OK (and also very important) to cry with D9. Balance the tears you shed alone and with her. I bet it felt good to get some needed sleep. It also sounds like you are doing a good job dealing with H irresponsible actions.

I strongly suggest that you take time to cry when you get home (or after D9 is sleeping). The more tears the better. Stuffing the feelings is not healthy. You are D9 role model. Show her how to process all the emotions.

HUGS



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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