the reason a WAS walks away from the M is because they weren't being loved in the way they needed it, and they were hurt. we can't blame everything on them. it's a 2 party deal. it takes 2 people to deteriorate a marriage.
WOW more reality, and I didn't have to post it in my own words, someone else is doing it for me ;-)
so Rob, why are you so bent on believing that her H has never tried and doesn't give a crap?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."