Yeah, they need it. They have needed it....I think they would refuse to go if I tried to take them.
You are the father. Insist. Period. After identifying a good counselor, see him first alone, learn his approach, his philosophy and get his advice as to how to overcome their reticence and possible refusal to attend. Years ago, my oldest wanted no part of it; my youngest wanted to go. We all went (sons and I, not W). Only about 6 - 8 sessions. Did a lot of good.
Originally Posted By: antlers
Hard to imagine that we were married, and we had a family.
Tell me.
Hi G man.
Normally, that would be the case...but considering our past, when I was angry, resentful, and abusive...it's not that easy right now to have that attitude with them. I am a firm believer in counseling. I want more for myself, and I want it for them too.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
