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Why am I doing all the work on something I don't want?


???

I sure as sure don't know why man.

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she accused me of stalling.


So?

She wants it let her do the work.

You drive me a bit nuts Kid.

Not many here are going to say you pushing the divorce is a good idea Kid. And if they do, you got to look deeper at why they would.

Doing all the leg work for the divorce to make her happy...is like:

Loading the guns and putting on your own blindfold before you march to the firing line to be shot, hoping that your 'helpfulness' will midigate some of the charges.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet