feel like giving up - talk to me!

[luvless]

you can't just backslide when you start seeing that he pursues you (and he will eventually), and another thing, the sex.... I think you knew I was going to mention this eventually, I don't know what the frequency is between you & your hubby but I get the impression that when he wants sex, you give it to him because he starves you emotionally and having sex with him for those 5 glorious minutes gives you a small connection (because you miss feeling loved so much that you'll take whatever scraps are given).

So yes, start limiting the sex,
"I'm too tired tonight"
"I have a headache"
"I don't feel like it"

LMAO 5 glorious minutes! Well...our sex life has always been pretty good but lately it's just been a few times. He has initiated yeah and I obey lol but no more Mrs nice Luv

Hey...and don't take me for some emotional girly girl - I'm more like a guy I just wanna get mine too sometimes lol not looking for a "connection."

I tell you...some of the comments here are too funny.

Thanks for the smiles.