That is a tough one. It's going to be hard not to think about what he's up to this weekend while you are gone. If the opportunity presents itself tonight I think it would be good to discuss some of the concerns you are having. It should be his job to reassure you. Explain that you are working on trusting him again but it is a process and thank him for continuing to support your R by reassuring you. Explain too that the biggest thing about regaining trust is about being open and honest, and maybe even ask of him, that if he has any slips or backtracks that he just be honest with you about it. He's still at the beginning stages and he might have some slip ups, but like you said, to lie about them, would just put the nail in the coffin.

BTW, how is S doing? And did you get a positive response then from H when you explained that you were an interpersonal person?


Me 27; H 28; S 2
Togeth 9; M 4
Sep 11/14/08
EA OW1 Sep 08
EA OW2 Mar 09
EA OW3 Jun 10

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Current: http://tinyurl.com/2etp7c9