After reading other posts- I want to write something out, but I'm starting to be able to answer some of my own questions- I feel like I'm growing a bit.
I wanted to see if I should attempt to rationalize w/ W about OM's history about him validating other women while in R, and basically helping them find comfort in leaving R or M.
W admitted feelings for him, there have been lots of lies and nights out, etc, etc, etc.
It would make sense to me to try to figure things out w/ MC and effort...you can not explain away things though, or but but but...I understand that is not confident.
I am also beginning to understand that w/o W experiencing a loss, there is no reason for her to want to stay or work on things.
I'm wondering if I should blast her a little, about the betrayal of my personal secrets and past...she basically told OM all about me and my past to help him validate her feelings of not being in a oving M and wanting out.
