The House of Pain...lol sadly! I know what you mean- why should we leave the house when we put joy, blood and tears into it. But we also put joy, blood and tears in your relationship with WS, too, and we didn't get a choice in keeping that relationship!

It isn't fair.

I guess it would be interesting to see if having a roomie will help you to enjoy your house again. If it doesn't maybe you will not want to put up a fight forkeeping the house....there are other houses out there.

Do you think there is a chance that if you put up a fight for the house that your X will just say "FINE! KEEP IT!" ???


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004