I have to agree with DDay. You are going to be D next Thursday and you are still trying to be her friend, do her favors and show her what a great guy you are. I think you should go NC with her. ASAP. What is going to happen a week from Friday when she wants you to do something else. She is in crisis and you are enabling her crisis. She may not wake up for a few years.
This has to start being about YOU. Stop worrying about her and just worry about yourself. GAL.
You are buying her presents. That is pursuing. STOP.
You probably are not going to bust this D. Start thinking that way. I bet your W is not thinking that way. She has no clue what it is going to be like to be D. Maybe after you are D for a while she might realize that you were not the cause of all her problems. Right now it is easier to blame you.
I would read the resources on the MLC board. If you need help finding them I can help you.
