Do Not - get her a very generic card something that says (happy v day) no mushy words or anything like that. That's what I'm going to do.
oh and stop making her lunch!
luvless we spoke the other day, he's expecting a card or gift from you, you will shock him if you don't do anything, he will start to get the hint that you are starting to pull away.
Do what works, stop following your feelings, your feelings have given you the results you rec'd to date and none to successful, be disciplined, follow the plan we discussed the other day. Start with a small taste of fear of loss, you can do it and if you want to be successful with your situation, you need to start doing what works.