how often are you having R talks? can you call a truce with one another and promise not to talk about your R until you get to retro next month?

i think it's good she at least agreed to go...but if you could do those things on your own, wouldn't you not be in this situation to begin with??

Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless