Hey Just wanted to chime in on the custody thing. It isn't good for your child that his dad hasn't kept him much, but it IS good for your case.
My attorney told me from the beginning, "What is temporary often becomes permanent"...Meaning, if you can show that the pattern has been for you to have your child, the courts will often agree to keep it that way. Because given the opportunity, your husband has not made the effort to keep him overnight, so it shows a precedent that you have primary custody...hope that makes sense!
