I read on here that boundaries are also very important.
Lately I find that she spends alot of time on FB..
I actually figured out her pass word on it, but I dont really notice anything wrong.. I know I shouldnt do that, or check emails, texts etc becasue it just builds on the anxiety.

What I have difficulty with is setting a boundary around the amount of time on FB.. I know she uses it to chat it up with girlfriends etc, but I also know she chats it up with the guy at her workplace which was the same guy who was pursuing her earlier. I dont want to sound controlling either..

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ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)