You are moving across the country? Do you have friends, family, support there? What in terms of friends, support would you be leaving?
I ask because I, too, could say--no kids, no X, no house--go for it! But I haven't wanted anything other than what I had for 20 years...not longing for the southwest, or another job, or anything. OK, Western powder would be nice.
What is your new dream that you are pursuing? When will the D be final?
I, too, would have been happy to leave road smooth--not that I am dreaming or thinking at all of an R--but I'm afraid the house will just tear that all to pieces.
Tell me your new plan--get me excited to think of new things for myself!
Good luck with whatever meet-up you have with H. You will just project the very best YOU.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
