Thanks OP - I have read the resources but I still struggle with if she is a WAS or a MLCEr. This EA is killing me. I tried to confront her with it a few months ago but it continues (i believe) I refuse to look at the cell bill anymore plus she may have picked up another separate phone. I so want to call his wife and tell her but I think that may be the wrong move. I know I need to detach and GAL but since I was the controlling disconnected spouse for so many years I feel like I need to try and understand what she is going thru if indeed it is a MLC. I wake up every morning and make her breakfast, she has started a new job and now carrys the insurance. She normally is pleaseant but short with me. If I know I need to detach but I miss her.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
