Sleeper, I think you mention what I observe as well. X is less furious w/me when I breathe.
What I find amazing is that there is this sort of "Gee, why don't you want to be my friend?" sort of attitude that popped out. "You don't seem to even want to talk with me!" Uh, no, I really don't. I'm not rude, I'm not angry, but I'm not open and interested and hopeful either.
I notice that X comes in the house when he really doesn't need to.
As with you, I notice that X has not done anything to shed OP, so I guess this shift is just something that I will quietly note.
Maybe your X is emotionally HEALTHIER but that doesn't make her HEALTHY.
Popcorn refill!
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