Trusting, Your plan to stay away sounds like a good one. My plan is the same.

Maybe he is starting to realize that he can't blame you for all his problems.

What was it that made you think you saw progress?

As far as liking the OW, you got a glimpse into their unhappiness. Sounds as if it is a matter of time w/your X now.

The fact that he still needs to lash out at you when you haven't done anything to him is telling.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D