Yesterday was really busy with my mom and just trying to clean up and get rid of some stuff here.

Exh sent a text in the morning asking if we got his texts the night before (that i ignored). I said yes. He asked if I was in a bad mood or having a bad day? I sent:

"Exh, I have told you before I would like us to keep all communication about baby only. We are divorced and have our own lives now and there is nothing more we need to talk about outside of her. I don't want or need the drama and am sick of being threatened, followed, and intimidated."

I know you all are going to blast me for the last part, but I felt like putting it in at the time.

He responded with:
"If that is how you want it then fine. You better let me know if our daughter is in some sort of danger!"

Is he kidding? His MGF is loony and dangerous! I have 3 texts with her threatening me plus being followed!

Last night he tried to communicate with me and make it about baby. Wanted me to send some pics. I didn't have any on my phone that he already didn't have.

Oh and he missed his visit yesterday. Said he was working.



Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!


now, what steps can you do to start making things better, with your stress, tiredness, pool...etc.. maybe just take one thing at a time.



The pool has to be fixed. Too unsafe to have open so I will have to figure that one out soon. Company will hopefully be here this week to look at it.

The rest of the stressful stuff...I don't know. There are certain things I have to do (studying, house, etc.) and having a couple of hour window when baby is sleeping is frustrating. Shes the worlds worst sleeper too frown I am hoping my sister and mom will know I am about at my breaking point and could use their support.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!