The Court hears this cr@p all day, everyday. And they hear some pretty weird stuff. You have acknowledged the things you've done wrong. And you are working to correct them. A note about her: She is stuck with the 'old' version of you. When the Court hears someone lie, or present some watered-down version of reality...they know. You, my dear, will be a breath of fresh air. A man. Doing the right thing.