I still want my wife to fulfill her responsibility as a mom regardless if we reconcile or not.
I follow that. You might have to go for work, your d still needs some stability, even if it isn't the best kind. If you've given up on her as a parent, maybe a daycare is better. If not, then why have your d go through a non-parent.
Originally Posted By: AFWAW
she has signed up for counseling but has still not attended for some reason.
You seem to be making some excuses for her. My W needs self-esteem counselling. Maybe it is I'm such an a** that she needs it, but she still does. This leads to a lot of fights, so without it, I do not believe our M can survive. I set a boundary. You do, then we'll talk. It looks like bullying, but I don't think it is...maybe it is, though...
Originally Posted By: AFWAW
I'm still really struggling with which way to go on this. She seems really remorseful but there really is a lot of damage.
As said earlier, 6 men sounds high. Sounds like she almost testing out other men or using them for the touch. My W went overseas to see her family. She had a bad trip and became scared, thinking someone was chasing her. A man offered to help her, but she ended off holding his hand to try to regain her 'strength' by lowering her fear...weird for a man, not weird for her.
Are you going through counselling, too?
I wonder how many folks feel the way that I do? [/quote]
