I am in the same place. Ex has twinges of the old self, they don't last more than 10 seconds and the last time I saw one was in Nov. It makes it even harder to let go because you wonder, "Are they getting to be normal?" It brings back memories. I also wonder how they treat OW at this stage.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11