antlers, Hope is good. He is listening. The Judges are really good people, and they have good BS radar. I'm so sorry your STBXW is using the kids as weapons. It sounds like she has a few issues to get worked out. Hopefully she will not end up a bitter and wrinkley like a crusty old raisin. Things started to get better for me when I found myself on my knees (or one of them anyway) before God, begging for Him to save my little family. And He did. Today, I sit here in my giant 3 bed apartment, with my cat, Hazel. S19 won't take my calls, S16 is hospitalized (and his Dad has unsupervised visits), and D13 is spewing poison every chance she gets. Oh yeah, I'm a rockstar, allright. (I'm reading, socializing, NOT working, and taking AD meds, btw, that last part sounds kinda whiney). Best wishes as you move FORWARD.
