Hi M! Well, it was a long time coming, but maybe his letter arrived just in the nick of time huh??
I loved your note, well done by the way..well done. I agree with Cyrena and others (hi Cyrena!!).. I often said I thought your H was depressed, that he was dealing with it by being a workaholic, some men go that way with it. And that I never thought he seemed happy these past 1, 2 years. And I agree, there is NO WAY he would have written an email like that, or opened up in that way to ow. No way. Not from a soul level like that, so console yourself with that hey?
I think that is a positive in all of this. And that he loves you!!!
Oh and I think you can step in a little, just enough compassion and practical help to help him help himself, because he seems VERY lost and paralysed, as he said (paraplegic, lol... and after those analogies I was giving you about Christopher Reeves etc, ha).. like, for example, bf asked me for help, so I booked a doctors appointment for him.. but he went along and spoke to him and was honest and started on ADs again, which was down to him. So continuing with MC for now is a good idea, from your BFF? xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread