First, thank goodness you are moving so you don't have to run into W anymore, especially now that she's being greedy about the house.
Greedy and vindictive.
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Second, if D's mom is moving to the same location you are, then that means you won't have to travel so far to see her! Excellent!
It probably won't be for quite some time as she is looking for a house swap but it's a step in the right direction.
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Third, are you tempted to just make out w/ D's mum in the middle of the store where W works, just for fun? hahaha--I am not serious!!
We already talked about that sometime ago. We'd go into the store skipping hand-in-hand
D's mum said she was in the store just the other day with her ex-partner and she said W looked very confused looking at them. More proof she thinks me and D's mum are back together.
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P, I don't see anything bad? No 2x4s here...I am very happy for you! Maybe the storm was a sign for you to be with your friend as part of the healing amd ego boost you needed!
That's actually what I thought
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You are living in the present and wise about knowing the rush of endorphins is temporary. I guess just take it slow is all. But where you live, even if you wanted to divorce, you'd have to wait another year, right?
I could actually divorce now. You can divorce immediately on the grounds of adultery or unreasonable behaviour. You can divorce after a year if both parties agree (called a Quickie Divorce) or after two years without consent from the other party.
Perhaps when W hears about my new relationship (and she will - no matter what I do to try and hide it, she will hear so there is no point in trying to hide it) she will file for D on the grounds of adultery. That's not possible at the moment (as I'm not an adulterer) but I'm not going to sit here and pretend that as this relationship potentially develops that things won't happen.
Anyway, W wants a D she can do the legwork herself and pay for it. As I've said many times, and it appears to be becoming my new mantra - I don't care - or as my IC puts it - I don't WANT to care.
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BTW just wanted to clarify that I meant it was good that you would be close to D NOT D's mom.
No, I got that newmama
Last edited by P17; 02/04/1011:55 AM.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
