He said he is done!!

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blownaway65,
I am not sure I could take H back either. My father has even offered to pay for the D - not taking his money for this (or anything else). Not going to make this easy on my H. I know I should not be listening to others about making a decision - that I need to make this decision for myself. It is just to raw to be signing any kinds of D papers.

robx,
thanks for the advise - I wish I could go DARK and not have any contact - even contact in regards to the kids is SO HARD - I am still so angry and I know it is heard in my voice. The sad thing is I think I have talked with H more now that he has moved out then I talked with him when he was living at home! How SAD is that!! He would come home at night and immediately go outside and stay there all night !! get up in the morning - go to work and do it all over again. Except now I know why he was going out for hours on Saturday and Sunday mornings (fishing with the guys - yeah right)!!! If he put as much effort into the kids and me that he put into seeing HER I honestly think we would not be here today - of course he disagrees!