Lotus - yeah, sometimes it seems that way. She's better today, having gotten some sleep. I've got the boys at the apartment tonight.

Not sure I've given her time - CA has 6 months mandatory period for divorce, and the lawyers haven't really done much.

LFA - that's more or less what we were talking about doing, but now that W said she wants out ASAP (and I really don't know which end of the spectrum she's going to stick to), not sure. Anyway, she asked if we can sit down on Sunday and work out specifics - the stuff the lawyers haven't done.

Thanks for the support. It's good to know you guys are out there.

I wish to spend more time on other threads here, but right now I have internet access at work, and picking up an unsecured connection in my apartment sitting on the bathroom floor - that's where I get it - and it's intermittent.

Off to bed -