WH will be making it easier for me to avoid him this month...
First, my superbowl party invite idea backfired...he just said he could watch S and would pick him up and return him later. I should have waited until the day of, saying I got last minute plans to go!
But he wants to take S overnight on the 13th, so IF he really is going on a business trip, he won't have a night alone with OW for 3 nights straight and the night he does return, they will have a crying baby to deal with!
He will be taking a day off each week, Tuesday. Used to be Friday before he started taking S overnight.
Because of my classes, I will be busy Mon and Thurs nights.
For the next 2 weeks, he will not be at the house on Sunday.
He will still be here on Wednesday days but now that my baby sign class is over, I can go back to working out, then going to lunch and a movie.
WH Nights here: Mon and Thurs (I have class both nights) WH Days here: Wed and Sun (I work out then run errands)
So I still want to cook something on Mondays to prove my cooking is here to stay(remember I have only been cooking for 3 months out of all the time he has known me)BUT will leave it on the stove for him to eat alone while I go to class!
Today I did talk to him about building a toy box. He seemed partly interested, partly concerned with how much work it would entail. So I will drop it for awhile and then see if he brings it up!
I was hoping he would bring coffee and he did!He also offered to cook me breakfast but I said No thanks. I stayed rather busy most of the time but did watch S when he had to have a work meeting over the phone (I witnessed it- he was telling the truth)
Oh and my VS package arrived-am wearing my new PJs right now!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004