WH will be making it easier for me to avoid him this month...

First, my superbowl party invite idea backfired...he just said he could watch S and would pick him up and return him later. I should have waited until the day of, saying I got last minute plans to go!

But he wants to take S overnight on the 13th, so IF he really is going on a business trip, he won't have a night alone with OW for 3 nights straight and the night he does return, they will have a crying baby to deal with!

He will be taking a day off each week, Tuesday. Used to be Friday before he started taking S overnight.

Because of my classes, I will be busy Mon and Thurs nights.

For the next 2 weeks, he will not be at the house on Sunday.

He will still be here on Wednesday days but now that my baby sign class is over, I can go back to working out, then going to lunch and a movie.

WH Nights here: Mon and Thurs (I have class both nights)
WH Days here: Wed and Sun (I work out then run errands)

So I still want to cook something on Mondays to prove my cooking is here to stay(remember I have only been cooking for 3 months out of all the time he has known me)BUT will leave it on the stove for him to eat alone while I go to class!

Today I did talk to him about building a toy box. He seemed partly interested, partly concerned with how much work it would entail. So I will drop it for awhile and then see if he brings it up!

I was hoping he would bring coffee and he did!He also offered to cook me breakfast but I said No thanks. I stayed rather busy most of the time but did watch S when he had to have a work meeting over the phone (I witnessed it- he was telling the truth)


Oh and my VS package arrived-am wearing my new PJs right now!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004