Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[flowmom]

I also know that I have to "get over" my hang-up about not letting S1 stay overnight.

My H and I have agreed that D3.5 is too young to stay overnight at his place. We both know she would be distressed. Even S6 hasn't stayed overnight at H's place and it's been a month. We are trying to keep things stable right now and that means sleeping in their beds and having me (the nighttime parent) present. H moving out is enough of a change for them.