Well LR, now we're in the same boat. Just found out my H went on a nighttime work trip with (former EA?) coworker this weekend when he also asked me not to call him for a few days. Did they stay the night? No way to ever know. Now I'll be ODP for at least 48 hours because I already sent a short text I shouldn't have that needed the 48 hour ODP treatment. So my boundary on lying (and lying through hiding and omission) was just crossed. Are the stars poorly aligned this week? Now I'm amazed you kept your mouth shut with H in same house at all. If mine was here, I would have lost it for sure. So my hat's off to you about the self control on the sister IM issue.
