snc, It is late, I am about to log off, so I just skimmed. Will read it all and get back to you tomorrow as will many others. Read a lot of posts. Read Quotes Found On Divorce Busting II near the top of this NewComers List. Get Divorce Remedy. Be patient. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Be hopeful. There are truly wonderful, generous, giving, insightful people on this board. Listen to them.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
