di- Jack is right. You can choose to think that your H will be angry forever or you can choose to not concern yourself with how he responds. After all, you have no idea what the future has in store so why think it is going to be any worse than it already is? Try to be as positive as you can be. Try to be the lighthouse.
I told you last night that my D and her BF are having problems. Her BF has asked for a "break" rather than a break-up. This may sound stupid to you but maybe for now that is how you need to frame this situation in your mind. Your H claims he still cares, that is much more than many people here get from their spouses. For now you and your H are on seperate paths but who knows what the future will bring. That is the attitude I am trying to take. Yes, this is an ugly mess and so unfair but you can choose to let go of some of the negativity, accept things for what they are at this moment and try to open your mind up to whatever life brings your way.
