You are on the right path. But also realize that you are never going to be done. Don't let what I am saying change anything you are doing. Just keep it in the deep recesses of your mind
I'm with you OP. I know, b/c we have two wonderful children together, W will never totally be out of my life. We may not be M'd to each other soon, but we will always be our childrens' parents.
My W has been gone for nearly 2.5mos. I think she may finally be realizing this. There isn't the clean break to some glorious new life when you have kids together.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.