"- Any decision that involved my daughter would have to be discussed before she acts"
And AFWAW is still his daughter's father. I think what AFWAW is getting at is that all decisions regarding their daughter are arrived at mutually rather than unilaterally by either him or his wife.
Is this so AFWAW?
Of course, if AFWAW wants absolute authority over decisions regarding his daughter and W's feelings are irrelevant then this is very bad as well. But, AFWAW used the word "discuss" in what he wrote.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)