He said he is done!!

[blownaway65]

Hi Lost, I'm another one in the same sitch as you.

My heart goes out to you and your kids.

I'm at the stage where I'm seriously not thinking about, but really FEELING that I should be doing what robx is saying. Not as a last ditch attempt to get W to see sense, but because that's the way I actually feel.

I'm not sure that I could take W back if she wanted it, and I'm starting to enjoy life without her - it's a really hard thing to say that you're giving up 23 years with someone but I'm not sure I can do it anymore.

Not sure if you've met up with Cutterbug yet but when you do, take a look at his signature. My W, for 6 months has been indifferent.

Even though we are all in much the same boat, each of us will play out our own sitch's differently.

If you want to give up and move on with your life, then that's fine. If you feel it's worth putting yourself through this then that's fine too.

Remember it's not about H, it's about you and the kids.

Take care.