I think in my W's case she was WAW and then when I kicked her out, packing her bags and throwing them out the front door was the event that triggered the full blown MLC. That was Aug 25 2009 I don't blame myself but it was a major event.
I think my wife hit bottom shortly after in November with the hospital stay? on November 20, 2009. Do you think that someone can move that fast in an MLC. I by no means think that her MLC is a short term thing but I think she is pretty fluid between stages at this point.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.