Hey, antlers,
Originally Posted By: antlers
Yeah, they need it. They have needed it....I think they would refuse to go if I tried to take them.
You are the father. Insist. Period. After identifying a good counselor, see him first alone, learn his approach, his philosophy and get his advice as to how to overcome their reticence and possible refusal to attend. Years ago, my oldest wanted no part of it; my youngest wanted to go. We all went (sons and I, not W). Only about 6 - 8 sessions. Did a lot of good.
Originally Posted By: antlers
Hard to imagine that we were married, and we had a family.
Tell me.


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac