Another lesson learned. If you are not prepared to talk to your W then wait 24 or 48 hours until you are. Being nervous on a call, worrying about blame and speculating about what she may or may not be mad at is pointless.
And stop worrying about why your W did this or that with OM. It doesn't matter and will only hinder your growth.
As I see it you are only doing these things to win your W back and it will never ever stick.
