Update - I have learned many facts over the past few days. I am not chasing - no preaching my love. I had it out with him the other day told him I was done - told him I could not do this. Got in my car and LEFT!

However there is contact b/c of the kids - I keep it to that.

LNG
Me - 37
H - 42
S - 19
D - 16
D - 14
M - 20 years
S - 1/11/2010
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